طراحی الگوی خانواده کارآمد ایرانی- اسلامی و اثربخشی آن بر تعارضات زناشویی زوجین متقاضی طلاق

گل باریان, مرضیه; عارفی, مختار; گودرزی, محمود; شرف بیانی, محمد

طراحی الگوی خانواده کارآمد ایرانی- اسلامی و اثربخشی آن بر تعارضات زناشویی زوجین متقاضی طلاق

نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

¹ دانشجوی دکتری، رشته مشاوره، واحد سنندج، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، سنندج، ایران

² دانشیار، گروه روانشناسی و مشاوره، واحد کرمانشاه، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، کرمانشاه، ایران

³ دانشیار، گروه مشاوره خانواده، واحد سنندج، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، سنندج، ایران

⁴ استادیار، گروه زبان و ادبیات فارسی، واحدسنندج، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، سنندج، ایران

چکیده

هدف از پژوهش حاضر، طراحی الگوی خانواده کارآمد ایرانی اسلامی و اثربخشی آن بر تعارضات زناشویی زوجین متقاضی طلاق است. پژوهش حاضر از نظر هدف کاربردی و به لحاظ روش اجرا آمیخته است. مشارکت کنندگان پژوهش حاضر در بخش کیفی اساتید حوزه روانشناسی اسلامی و اساتید علوم اسلامی به روش غیرتصادفی گلوله برفی انتخاب شدند. جامعه آماری در بخش کمّی نیز شامل متقاضیان طلاق مراجعه کننده به دادگاه در شهر کرمانشاه در سال 1401 شامل 30 زوج (15 نفر زن و 15 نفر مرد) به صورت نمونه گیری در دسترس انتخاب شدند. ابزار گردآوری داده ها در بخش کیفی مصاحبه و در بخش کمّی پرسشنامه تعارض زناشویی براتی و ثنایی (1379) بود. براساس نتایج به دست آمده عوامل زمینه ساز خانواده کارامد ایرانی – اسلامی شامل سلامت محیط کار، سلامت خانواده، سلامت جامعه، سلامت روابط، تفریح های سالم، تجربه بالا، دانش کافی، فرهنگ سازی صحیح، تمیز کار از خانواده، عوامل مداخله گر شامل ناظر تلقی نمودن خدا، پرورش توحیدی خود، اعتقاد به معاد، مقابله با خودخواهی، روزی حلال، دعا در حق خانواده، تربیت صحیح فرزندان در هر دوران، بردباری، غلبه بر نفس اماره، حکمفرمایی قانون، باور به موهبت بودن خانواده، امر به معروف در خانواده، احترام به یکدیگر، حساب شده بودن امر و نهی ها، رازداری و خویشتن داری، خیرخواهی در حق یکدیگر، فرهنگ سازی در خانواده، راهبردها شامل مراجعه زوجین به مشاوره، آموزش احترام به یکدیگر، آموزش مسئولیت پذیری، برنامه ریزی کردن برای تفریح، کنترل روابط با جنس مخالف، آموزش احترام به یکدیگر، پرورش زوجین، آموزش و فرهنگ سازی صحیح در خانواده‌ها، توکل به خدا، آموزش تعامل صحیح زوجین با یکدیگر شناسایی شدند. نتایج بخش اثربخشی نشان داد که الگوی خانواده کارامد ایرانی – اسلامی بر تعارضات زناشویی زوجین متقاضی طلاق اثربخش بود.

کلیدواژه‌ها

20.1001.1.26454955.1404.20.72.8.6

موضوعات

فصلنامه فرهنگی تربیتی زنان و خانواده

عنوان مقاله [English]

Designing an efficient Iranian-Islamic family model for couples applying for divorce

نویسندگان [English]

Marzieh Golbarian ¹
mokhtar arefi ²
mahmaod godarzi ³
mohammad sharafbayani ⁴

¹ PhD Student, Counseling, Sanandaj Branch, Islamic Azad University, Sanandaj, Iran

² Associate Professor, Department of Psychology and Counseling, Kermanshah Branch, Islamic Azad University, Kermanshah, Iran

³ Associate Professor, Department of Family Counseling, Sanandaj Branch, Islamic Azad University, Sanandaj, Iran

⁴ Assistant Professor, Department of Persian Language and Literature, Sanandaj Branch, Islamic Azad University, Sanandaj, Iran

چکیده [English]

Marital conflict in couples' relationships has made their marriages unstable, and the long-term conflicts of couples and the resulting tension are the cause of disorder in the functioning of the family. The purpose of the current research is to design an efficient Iranian Islamic family model and its effectiveness on marital conflicts of couples applying for divorce. The current research is applied in terms of purpose and mixed in terms of execution method. In this research, first the participants according to the purpose of the research from among the community (the participants of the present research in the qualitative part of all professors in the field of Islamic psychology with at least 10 years of work experience and professors of Islamic sciences with at least one authorship in the field of marital relations in the city of Kermanshah in 1401 The statistical population in the quantitative section also includes divorce applicants in the city of Kermanshah in 2022 The collection of information in the present research was in the qualitative part of the interview and in the quantitative part of the marital conflict questionnaire of Barati and Sanai (2008). , healthy entertainment, high experience, sufficient knowledge, effective use of virtual space, counseling, correct culture, distinguishing work from family), intervening factors (considering God as an observer, cultivating one's monotheism, believing in resurrection, confronting selfishness, Halal sustenance, prayer for the family, correct upbringing of children in every era, tolerance, overcoming selfishness, the rule of law, belief in the blessing of the family, doing what is good in the family, respecting each other, considering the dos and don'ts, secrecy. and self-restraint, benevolence towards each other, building culture in the family), strategies (referring couples to counseling, teaching respect for each other, teaching responsibility, planning for fun, controlling relationships with the opposite sex, teaching respect for each other, nurturing couples , correct education and cultural formation in families, trusting in God, teaching the correct interaction of couples with each other), the consequences of the Iranian-Islamic family not being efficient (extramarital relations, reducing the quality of marital relations, tendency to risky behaviors, lack of intimacy in the family, loss trust, devaluation of family, sense of emptiness) were identified. Also, the model has had sufficient validity and also this model has been effective on the marital conflicts of couples applying for divorce. Finally, it has been concluded that it is suggested to the counseling centers that this educational model is taught periodically by family counselors to the couples applying for divorce.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

Model
Efficient Iranian-Islamic family
Marital Conflicts
Divorce

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