ویژگی های پدریِ خوب: مطالعه ای با رویکرد کیفی

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ویژگی های پدریِ خوب: مطالعه ای با رویکرد کیفی

نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

¹ استادیار، گروه علوم اجتماعی، دانشکدۀ علوم اجتماعی و اقتصادی، دانشگاه الزهرا (س)، تهران، ایران.

² دانشیار، گروه مطالعات علوم اجتماعی و جمعیت، پژوهشکده زنان، دانشگاه الزهرا (س)، تهران، ایران

چکیده

باورها دربارۀ والد خوب نقش بسیار حیاتی در زندگی روزمرۀ والدین دارند و به عنوان راهنمای تصمیم‌گیری‌های والدینی و رفتارهای فرزندپروری عمل می‌کنند. در این راستا پژوهش حاضر با استفاده از روش پدیدارشناسی به دنبال فهم افراد جامعه از ویژگی‌های پدری خوب بوده است. به این منظور بر مبنای نمونه‌گیری هدفمند با نود نفر شامل پدران، مادران، مردان و زنان متأهل بدون فرزند، پسران و دختران مجرد در سن ازدواج ساکن شهر تهران مصاحبه شده است. حاصل تحلیل مصاحبه‌ها، شناسایی دوازده ویژگی «الگوی پسندیده»، «رشددهندگی همه‌جانبه»، «تعامل سازنده با فرزند»، «کارگزاری متعهدانه»، «تعامل شایسته با مادر»، «پشتوانگی مستدام»، «عطوفت مهرورزانه»، «رفاقت صمیمانه»، «مدیریت مدبرانه»، «استعدادپروری شناخت محور»، «امنیت‌بخشی آرامش‌گرانه» و «اقتدار مهربانانه» برای پدری خوب بوده است. یافته‌ها حاکی از انتظار از پدران برای مشارکت همه‌جانبه و بسیار فعال در امر فرزندپروری است که فراهم کردن زمینۀ لازم برای کسب دانش و مهارت‌های لازم توسط پدران را ضروری می‌نماید.

کلیدواژه‌ها

20.1001.1.26454955.1404.20.73.3.3

عنوان مقاله [English]

Characteristics of A Good Father: A Qualitative Study

نویسندگان [English]

Shohre Rowshani ¹
Mansoureh Zarean ²

¹ 1. Assistant Professor, Department of Social Sciences, Faculty of Social Sciences and Economics, Alzahra University, Tehran, Iran.

² 2. Associate Professor, Department of Social Sciences and Population Studies, Women Research Center, Alzahra University, Tehran, Iran.

چکیده [English]

Beliefs on who a good parent is play a pivotal role in parents’ daily lives, acting as a guide on decision-making regarding parenthood and child-bearing practices. Accordingly, the present article employs a phenomenology method to explain the public understanding regarding the characteristics of a good Father. To this end, 90 individuals residing in Tehran, including fathers, mothers, married men and women without children, and unmarried girls and boys at marriageable age, were purposively selected for interview. The result was the identification of 12 characteristics for a good father listed as follows: “accepted role model”, “comprehensive growth”, “constructive interaction between parents and children”, “committed agency”, “decent interaction with mothers”, “sustainable support”, “affections”, “intimacy”, “prudent management”, “cognitive-based talent development”, “peace and security”, and “affectionate authority”. Findings indicate that fathers are expected to actively and comprehensively participate in the task of childbearing, further necessitating the acquisition of certain knowledge and skills required for making a good parent

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

Characteristics of good fathering
women
men
Tehran
qualitative method

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